“Don’t talk to strangers!” was apt for the 6-year-old you, it served in keeping you safe. Is it serving the 22-year-old you? At every bend of the road, you’d need to interact with strangers, make connections, collaborate and move things forward.
Our caregivers never bothered to update the rules as we got old. fortunately, you have the resources, tools, techniques to unlearn these and imbibe ideas, perspectives and insights that will work for you.
This puts the responsibility of reset in your hands, the past doesn’t matter as much.
Which mind-set of yours are working for you? Which need to be reset?